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Happy Chinese New Year!!.. its been a while since i last posted anything in here, it was as if this place didn’t exist!.

However, the current festivities reminded me that i actually DO have a blog!.

Every year since 2008, I have this thing that i will do,during the chinese new year, i will take pictures of fireworks near my house.

This year is no different! not to mention, the quality of the image gets better by the year! :)

Click HERE for the previous year post!. :)

check out 2010
check out 2009
check out 2008

Have a great CNY … a BLESSED new year!. :)

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Well, what can I say?

How do you define sad?

What I think, definition of sad at different phase of your life means different thing.

At this very point, at this hr, this minute , this second, I’ve got a definition of sad,

Well, let me paint you a picture.

How would u feel if you found out that a person whom u put your heart out to be friends with, with utmost sincerity, with always the best intention for , never actually treated you as a friend or anything close.

A person who is texts and chats with you everyday about basically anything and everything in life but in the end tells other people that you weren’t close at all? …

A person who texts u midnight asking u random stuff and all when they can’t fall asleep.. Tells people that you were annoying the living daylight out of them.

A person that asks for advise but criticizes you, call u names, and make cynical jokes out of every best intention you make… All that without your knowing, behind your back.

That’s really sad. I cannot believe the conscience behind this person and best of all, there wasn’t any guilt or remorse, or any intention for redemptive measure to make good anything.

Well, that’s what you get when you have no value . When you no longer have anything of any value to offer. You get sidelined, trampled, ridiculed.

all I can say is you only have a #pfrh

That’s sad.

GOD KNOWS JUST WHAT WE NEED
A woman was at work when she received a phone call that her daughter was very sick with a fever. She left her work and stopped by the pharmacy to get some medication for her daughter.
Upon returning to her car she found that she had locked her keys in the car. She was in a hurry to get home to her sick daughter.  She didn’t know what to do, so she called her home and told the baby sitter what had happened and that she did not know what to do.
The baby sitter told her that her daughter was getting worse.  She said, “You might find a coat hanger and use that to open the door.”  The woman looked around and found an old rusty coat hanger that had been thrown down on the ground, possibly by someone else who at some time or other had locked their keys in their car.  Then she looked at the hanger and said, “I don’t know how to use this.”  So she bowed her head and asked God to send her some help.
Within five minutes an old rusty car pulled up, with a dirty, greasy, bearded man who was wearing an old biker skull rag on his head.  The woman thought, “This is what you sent to help me?”  But, she was desperate, so she was also very thankful.
The man got out of his car and asked her if he could help.  She said, “Yes, my daughter is very sick. I stopped to get her some medication and I locked my keys in my car. I must get home to her.  Please, can you use this hanger to unlock my car?”
He said, “Sure”. He walked over to the car, and in less than one minute the car was opened.
She hugged the man and through her tears she said, “Thank You So Much! You are a very nice man.”
The man replied, “Lady, I am not a nice man. I just got out of prison yesterday. I was in prison for car theft and have only been out less than 24 hours.”
The woman hugged the man again and with sobbing tears cried out loud, “Oh, Thank you God! You even sent me a Professional!”
God may not always send us what we expect, but He will always send us what we need.  It’s up to us to have the wisdom to recognize the difference and be thankful.

You wonder and wonder, why everything goes round in circle. You kept moving, but always end up at the same place.

STOP!

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Stop exactly where you are at! You don’t wanna get lost-er and do it all over again.

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Think back and trace your steps. Where have you been, what have you done.Why would someone treat you the way they treat you.

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Observe your surroundings. Try to make redemptive actions/plan. Ask why?, understand what causes it and what’s the effect. It’s counter-productive when you rectify one situation JUST to do the same mistakes again. In which many of us are capable of.

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Plan your actions . Contrary to popular belief, PROBLEMS dont exactly solve themselves. Say sorry. Buy dinner, Show remorse, try your level best to notrepeat them. Learn to treat everyone as HUMAN with feeling and real flesh. Not just a subject of your conversation/joke/ridicule. Learn Respect for fellow friends. You won’t like it when/if people treats you like object. Perhaps you will nv understand the pain of being sidelined, you are blessed with trump cards. But the days of your trump cards are numbered.

People are not plastic. Flesh bleed when cut, knife pierce..If everything and everyone seems to moot for you now, don’t live in assurance that it will be forever. Things change , tables turned around. Just like monopoly, your chance will come. Always leave a lifeline. You never know when you need them .

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You know, when they say, you pray that God brings the right people in your life, do you know it also actually means God taking the wrong ones out ?…

 

hmm… Something to munch on..

AN ANGEL WROTE:

Many people will walk in and out or your life,
but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.

To handle yourself, use your head,
To handle others, use your heart.

Anger is only one letter short of danger.

If someone betrays you once, it’s his fault.
If he betrays you twice, it’s your fault.

Great minds discuss ideas;
Average minds discuss events;
Small minds discuss people.

God gives every bird its food,
but He does not throw it into its nest.

He who loses money, loses much;
He who loses a friend, loses more;
He who loses faith, loses all.

Beautiful young people are acts of nature,
but beautiful old people are works of art.

Learn from the mistakes of others.
You can’t live long enough to make them all yourself.

The tongue weighs practically nothing,
but so few people can hold it.

Friends, you and me … you brought another friend…and then there were
3 … we started our group…
Our circle of friends … and like the circle … there’s no beginning

… there is no end.

– Author Unknown

It’s been a while since i’ve actually blogged my thoughts out.
So perhaps today I would.

First, it’s really disappointing to have been dissappointed by a person who promised not to repeat a stupid mistake.

Second, it’s also very dissapointing to have given a person a benefit of the doubt only to know that they misuse that benefit and use it against you. To know that you gave that person a chance, to teach, to help, to give head start, but in the end found out that the person has been secretly backstabbing and having other hidden agendas. Spreading lots of interesting stories about one superiority over the other not knowing that he/she is actually the root of the problem. .. Oh well, such is life. So this time, I will draw the line, protect myself. Although I should have a generous heart and mind, this time, I’m just gonna watch. No , I’m not the best.

Thirdly, what would u think of person A, when Person A tells person C that he/she is more matured/better than person B…. And that Person C should be careful of Person B .. I don’t know how righteously Person A made it sound, but to me it just look like a scam, and person C is foolish enough to believe considering all that have happened. Anyway, the truth will prevail. It just a matter of time. I hope Person C is a lil smarter now to see thru the truth. Otherwise, Person C deserves the consequences of it’s own action. That’s life.

Fourth, today, Ps T pointed out a very good point. I just have to sling , and God will take down Goliath. So in other words, with due diligence I do my part, and God will do the rest. He will turn man’s evil plan on me and turn it for my good.

“It is in you, to carry on
It is in you, to lay down fears that hold
It is in you, to find your way home”

I will still live my life in abundance , the abundance of blessing that God has given me and going to give me. I am destined for greatness, for big people talk about ideas, small people talk about people.

oh btw, if u have read this.. Sorry I wasted ur time. It was really meant to be a note for myself in years to come.

Got an email from EMail Ministry. hmm

Timely ? Perhaps.

 

MEMO FROM GOD
I am God. Today I will be handling all of your problems. Please remember that I do not need your help. If life happens to deliver a situation to you that you cannot handle, do not attempt to resolve it. Kindly put it in the SFGTD (something for God to do) box. It will be addressed in My time, not yours.
Once the matter is placed into the box, do not hold on to it or remove it. Holding on or removal will delay the resolution of your problem. If it is a situation that you think you are capable of handling, please consult me in prayer to be sure that it is the proper resolution. Because I do not sleep nor do I slumber, there is no need for you to lose any sleep. Rest my child. If you need to contact me, I am only a prayer away.
Be happy with what you have:
Should you find it hard to get to sleep tonight, just remember the homeless family who has no bed to lie in.
Should you find yourself stuck in traffic, don’t despair: There are people in this world for whom driving is an unheard of privilege.
Should you have a bad day at work, think of the man who has been out of work for years.
Should you despair over a relationship gone badly, think of the person who has never known what it’s like to love and be loved in return.
Should you grieve the passing of another weekend, think of the woman in dire straits, working twelve hours a day, seven days a week to feed her children.
Should your car break down, leaving you miles away from assistance, think of the paraplegic who would love the opportunity to take that walk.
Should you notice a new gray hair in the mirror, think of the cancer patient in chemo who wishes she had hair to examine.
Should you find yourself at a loss and pondering  what is life all about, asking, “What is my purpose?”, be thankful. There are those who didn’t live long enough to get the opportunity.
Should you find yourself the victim of other people’s bitterness, ignorance, smallness or insecurities, remember: things could be worse. You could be them!
Should you decide to send this to a friend; you might brighten someone’s day.

– Author Unknown

It makes more sense to ask your heart to give a chance to something that may fail for the benefit of the doubt that it may work , than to ask my heart to give up a great possibility of it working and with substance .

To give a chance is easier than giving up on one.

It’s easier for everyone too..

Aih,
I’ve done what you’ve asked me to do, despite my reluctance. If You didn’t tell me to stay, I would have been long gone. BUT why is staying so hard ? …Why do i care for the ‘world’ when i should have just cared for myself and leave … just like everyone else. I don’t see them diminishing , infact, they prosper.

What do You want still , God ?

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